Have you ever heard the phrase “If you can spot it, you’ve got it”? Basically, it means that many of the thing that annoy us in other people are things that annoy us in ourselves. Things we’d rather not face.
Don’t believe me? Next time someone pisses you off, do a little soul-searching and see what you find.
I had a whole year of spotting things before I could write this post. The judgment I heard from other people, I had it in myself. The maddening, paralyzing fear in my kid- I had that, too. So I saw stuff, and I owned it and worked through it and blah blah blah… and now I have something to say.
Please go read my post on Family Circle’s Momster blog: When Your Kid Isn’t Ready for College.